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The Idea-Reality Gap

I found a new framework I love for thinking about speed and how it relates to work.

In this video, Alex Hormozi is talking about overcoming procrastination and says that one of his company’s core values is, “speed is king.” You’d be excused for rolling your eyes – a lot of companies say stuff like that to justify a frantic culture and inability to prioritize. It gets old.

But he takes it in a different direction.

“It’s not what a lot of people think,” he says. “It’s not about being impatient. It’s not about trying to get a hundred things done. It’s about knowing how to get things done that matter…”

Here’s framework I love: He goes on to define power as the gap between thoughts becoming reality.

So an all-powerful, omnipotent being would think things into reality immediately, and at the other end of the spectrum you’d have someone who was completely powerless – unable to turn a thought into reality no matter how much time they were given.

We are typically somewhere in between, and (ideally) should be working our way left on that line.

I love this because it seems both simple and universally true. Across all times, and in all situations, the person with the most power is the one who is able to transform their ideas into reality the fastest. And over the course of your career, a way to measure progress or mastery in your craft is to assess whether you’re moving left on this scale.

I also like it because it puts useful guardrails on the old adage of “move fast and break things.”

“Speed isn’t doing things fast,” Hormozi says. “It’s basically just not being distracted by other shit that doesn’t matter. It’s being able to prioritize.”

Which brings me to the last reason I love this framework – it lends so much more weight to the importance of prioritizing, avoiding multi-tasking, and saying “no” to more.

Multi-Tasking Drains Your Power

I’ve been studying manufacturing recently. It’s a field that values precise thinking, and out of necessity, they’ve gotten good at analyzing systems, looking for bottlenecks, and removing them – something more knowledge-work companies should learn from.

One of the key thinkers in the space was a man named Dr. Eliyahu Goldratt who came up with something called The Theory of Constraints.

One of the keys to that theory is the idea that multi-tasking is bad. He liked to show this using the example below:

Imagine you have 3 projects that need to get done, and you can do them either sequentially, or you can multi-task between them. Depending on your choice, your timeline will look like one of these.

On its own, this graphic does a great job showing two things:

  • Multi-tasking significantly delays any individual project’s completion, which is a problem because the work isn’t useful until it’s done.
  • Because you incur a slight switching cost every time you change focus, all three projects ultimately take longer to finish overall.

But when we layer on Hormozi’s idea-to-reality principle, we see that what’s really going on here is that multi-tasking is tangibly decreasing your power. It’s moving your further to the right on the idea-reality line.

A lot of people talk about the importance of focus, or of being able to say no. But they I still say yes to too much. Focus feels like a nice-to-have. The first thing on the chopping block when things get tough.

But power? No one in their right mind would knowingly undermine their own power, or the power of the organization they work for.

This applies to both big-picture projects, and the way you spend your time day-to-day, hour-to-hour.

Story Is About The Gap Between Expectation and Reality

The first two pages of White Fang are more captivating and thought-provoking than anything I read on Twitter all day.

How is it that one or two pages from a story-teller, long-dead, can change you more profoundly than an endless scroll of the most profound thoughts of today’s most profound thinkers?

I’ve been obsessed with this question recently.

I sat down to record a video for work a few days ago. I was telling the story of a small company in Europe who started the world’s first carbon footprint credit card.

It was so hard.

I stumbled. I got side-tracked. Even the editors couldn’t save it. A total failure of storytelling.

The funny thing is, I used to be a great story-teller. It was like wood-working, or machining. I could feel a story’s angles and edges, knew how it fit together, sense the audience’s anticipation.

It seemed like the most natural thing in the world, and I remember the feeling of holding a group’s attention, wrapped, around a campfire or over drinks at a party.

I remember getting boring too.

All of a sudden, telling a story felt like treading water in a snow-suit. I pawed at the surface, trying harder and harder to keep my head up. Slipping further down into the darkness, flailing and thrashing, until finally all that was left was calm water as far as the eye could see.

I wish I could remember exactly what happened, that way I could change it back. I don’t know for sure, but I have a guess…

When I was 23, after a quarter-century of adventures, I suddenly found myself struggling with a case of soul-crushing anxiety. To survive, I learned to give up my expectations. Let go of my ideas about right and wrong. Embrace the messiness of life.

There’s a problem though…

At its core, story-telling is about exposing the gap between expectation and reality. If there’s no difference between what happened, and what the audience expects would happen, then there is no story.

For a story-teller, giving up expectations is like trimming the whiskers on a cat. All of a sudden, the world seems just a little out-of-reach. And that’s enough to ruin a great story.

So this blog is about exploring the craft of storytelling, and maybe, about learning to open myself back up to expectations after nearly a decade spent surviving.

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